Well, the move went successfully-obviously!-but I haven’t had a chance to blog about it yet. Well, I’m going to be a horrible blogger and cheat-I’m going to cut and paste my notes from Facebook to here!
My Move!
Well, here’s the lowdown on the cross-country move. We have been preparing and building up to this for months, and now it’s so close! The mover is supposed to drop by today and just check everything out-we live in a townhouse complex, so he might need a second truck as the big moving truck might be too big to fit in here.
The actual move might be happening as early as this Saturday!
That may actually be a blessing in disguise, that way I don’t have to clean around furniture and boxes, nor do I have to spend a 10 hour day cleaning! But, I’ll worry about that after the place is empty!
Then we will hang around in Edmonton while Shawn finishes his last week of work for a while-then it’s on the road! We’ll be heading east from Edmonton to either Winnipeg or Regina then down to the states. We’ll be heading back north in the Niagra region for a visit with some friends, family, a trip to the CN tower, Marineland and the hockey hall of fame! Then we’ll head north to Quebec City-spend a bit of time there, then it’s to NB! We’ll probably be driving straight through NB and NS to Cape Breton, where I will collapse and swear on my life that I will never attempt to do such a crazy trip with 2 small kids ever again! LOL!
I plan on updating whenever I can, and I’ll be online for the next week at least!
Well, the stuff is all loaded up and we are heading to Jenny’s for a couple of days before we take off. The loading went well, bunch of Newfies loaded it all up-there was something comforting about that aspect of it all! It made for a fun afternoon for sure. LOL!
Well, with the help of dad who has made the trip a few times, we sat down today with the maps and planned out the route. We’ve decided not to go through the US at all, so northern Ont here we come!
We’re heading out from Calgary early tomorrow, planning on making it to Regina then stopping for the night. Couple of days to take us through northern Ont, take the ferry from Manitoulin Island then down to the Toronto area for a couple of days. Visit some friends and family there, hit Marineland, the CN tower and the Hockey Hall of Fame! Maybe even get some shopping in if we have time, but I’m not too worried about that, we don’t have room for much!
After we’re done in Toronto, we’ll be heading to Quebec City for at least a day, but that depends on how we feel and how eager we are to just get to NS! We’ll try to make Quebec City-Cape Breton in a day, but that’s a long drive so we may stop in Moncton/Fredricton area for a night. It all depends on when our stuff will get there too, if it takes a while we might as well stay on the road and enjoy the trip.
I was a bit sad to leave Edmonton, really sad to leave Jenny especially, but we’ll be seeing her in a month or so anyways! I was sad to leave my friends too. Edmonton was a great place, lots of opportunities and lots of things to do. I’m a product of my environment though, just can’t live anywheres….too cold in the winter, too hot in the summer, that sort of thing! Also Edmonton is growing fast, and suffering the growing pains of becoming a big city. Now that we have kids we want to slow down a bit, look for a place that is close to a city, but still far enough away that we have our space. Financially that would take us a lot longer to achieve in Edmonton than in the Halifax area. If it doesn’t work out there for us, we’ll just move on and try someplace else! I don’t mind the adventure, and I’m always eager to try new places and things. Things are picking up in Halifax though, and now that Shawn is in the union, that will help too.
I’m getting a lot of comments and strange looks from people, I think some are pinning us into the category of ‘use and abuse Alberta’s opportunities, then leave when we’ve had our fill’ That pisses me off. For one thing, so what if we did-the province would have a hard time running if it weren`t for non-Albertan workers. For another thing, we gave it a chance. We were here for ten years! We had our children here, got them involved in the local amenities available, took part in the festivals, travelled around. We didn`t sit around and bitch and moan about how much we missed home-as I have heard so many people do!
We gave it a chance and it wasn`t for us-is that so bad-OK, it would be a lot more effective if I could put a question mark at the end of that sentence, but I`m on Dad`s laptop, and I can`t! All I get is É when I try!!! LOL!!!
Anyway, I`m sad I`m leaving but excited about what is ahead of us.
Well, we’ve been here for a week now actually. We are without a computer, just got telephone service yesterday, and won’t have TV service for another week. Welcome to Cape Breton! Also we’ve been busy setting up the house and enjoying the rest of the summer!
We’re here!!!
So, our trip. It was long. Painfully long-if I had of realized I probably wouldn’t have driven it. Common question in our car for the week? ‘Are we STILL in Ontario?’ ‘Yes, honey we’re STILL in Ontario’. I swear it was like a Twilight Zone episode or something-that province just keeps going on and on!!!!!
All in all it took us ten days. That’s with 2.5 days in Toronto, and a day lost in Sudbury due to car repairs. Just outside of Sudbury we started to hear a loud whining noise out of the front end of the car-one of the wheel bearings was shot. Luckily the dealership got us out of there by lunchtime, and it was covered by warranty to boot! At the same time that the car was in the shop, Katie was at the Dr’s-she got a fly bite on her lower eyelid that had become infected. Some antibiotic cream cleared that right up!
We kept the days short for the kids-Shawn and I aren’t too keen on driving anyway so short days were better. The worst was Northern Ontario. It’s a beautiful part of Canada, but man it is horrible to drive! Single lanes, curves and turns, speed limit of 90! Shawn got a speeding ticket too! It was only a matter of time, both him and I were cruising through the area pretty quickly!
We spent a day in Niagra Falls and then a day in Toronto as well. We saw the falls and went to Marineland, which was really fun! Then we headed to Janice and Bobby’s where we had a lot of fun. Got some laundry done, ate some good home-cooked meals, and had a wonderful time with them-thanks again guys!
We skipped visiting Quebec City-our furniture was here, and we were pretty sick of living out of suitcases-we just wanted to get home.
The kids were wonderful, I was worried about how they would deal with the driving, but they were on their best behaviour! Not much fighting, hardly any whining, it was wonderful!
Man you really get an appreciation for the size and beauty of this country when you drive across it! It was something I’ll never forget, but also something that I’m not sure I’ll ever want to do again!
Settling In
So, we’re here, and life is getting back to normal.
Alex has started school, her teacher is a former teacher of Shawn’s and a friend of my moms so I was happy about that! Alex is doing well, she is a little bit behind because of the change out of the French Immersion program (I expected that). However, Miss Fleming says that she is catching up quickly and is great when it comes to paying attention and asking for help! The teacher and I have no worries academically, and her teacher says she is getting along well socially too. The social part was what I was worried about-it’s hard being a new kid, but she is excited to go to school and comes home talking about her classmates. She also has made friends in the neighborhood too.
Katie is still on the list for pre-school. She misses Alex something fierce when Alex is at school. Katie loves being here though, first thing in the AM they both want to go outside, and Katie’s socks are black because she loves going around with no shoes!!!
There’s been a couple of surprises since we moved back. Good and bad ones, I won’t get into the bad ones. I underestimated the weirdness of being a stranger in a familiar place-it’s a surreal feeling! I know the area like the back of my hand, but I don’t know the people anymore at all!
The lack of good shopping has bothered me more than I thought too-I guess I am a shopaholic!!! LOL!!
It’s been hard trying to track down programs for the kids too-it’s not advertised very well. I have got them in gymnastics, which was the most important for the kids, they really wanted to stick with that. We are thinking of Brownies for Alex and maybe figure skating for the both of them too. It’s hard without a computer….so much of everyday life depends on it for me!!!
There are moments of clarity when our decision to move just feels so right though. Last night at a tiny little bar listening to a bluegrass band play while I laughed and talked with Shawn and my friends felt great-the bar was small, had a great mellow crowd, the beer was cheap, it was great!!!!! Last week after school one day we picked Alex up, took her home to drop off her books, then went for a walk. We walked along the cliffs, explored WW2 barracks that were used to defend the harbor, then went down to the beach. There was a firepit there with some wood still not burned around it, so Shawn made a fire and we sat by the fire and watched the kids make sandcastles and play in the water. The beach was clean, empty and quiet-we had it to ourselves most of the afternoon-it’s also a ten minute walk from our house! We look out our front door and watch the Nfld ferry leave the harbor, we watch huge cruise ships coming in and leaving. We couldn’t do that in Edmonton.
Anyway, gotta go out to my Aunt’s house for a combo birthday dinner for me and my mom!